Foreword
“Stefan our beautiful, kind, and funny boy”
“In March 2022, we lost a remarkable son and brother, Stefan. At just 15 years old, he reported relentless bullying at his Saturday job for being autistic. Tragically, he died by suicide feeling the weight of societal judgment, compounded by failures from the very statutory services meant to protect him.
“Stefan, a beautiful, kind, funny, and thoughtful young man, consistently brightened the lives of those around him with humour and his acts of kindness to others who were lost, lonely or isolated due to their difference.
“In February 2024, STefans’ Acts of Kindness – STAK.life was started to honour his memory by continuing his work, extending compassion to those marginalised by society due to differences.
“Let us strive to educate and advocate for neurodivergent individuals, ensuring that Stefan’s spirit lives on in a world that embraces neuro-affirming diversity and kindness.”
Tristan, Emma & Ellie x
Tristan, neurodivergent himself, holds a significant role as a core national trainer for the Anna Freud Centre’s National Autistic Training Program in London. This train the trainer program, commissioned by NHS England, focuses on training mental health and youth justice professionals. Additionally, Tristan conducts training sessions for NHS staff, specifically addressing learning disabilities and autism on behalf of MENCAP. A National Autistic Society trained facilitator, his expertise extends to collaborations with the University of Kent & Medway Medical School, and the Kent Autistic Trust. Tristan, an active member of the National Police Autism Association and various neurodiversity panels, has spearheaded initiatives within policing. His unwavering commitment lies in fostering understanding and support for neurodivergent individuals within educational and law enforcement settings, extending to various organizations and businesses.
Emma, a qualified teacher with over two decades of experience, has dedicated her career to supporting neurodivergent children, young people, and their families through training, consultancy, and one-on-one assistance. In 2018, she founded The SEND Trainer Limited, providing support and services nationally. Emma’s qualifications also include being a certified play and creative art therapist, offering valuable clinical support to children and young people in the local community.